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It is extremely beneficial to have a dedicated partner to talk all of the ideas in your head into existence in front of. The act of explanation is one that firmly defines personal knowledge of a subject. Saying everything in your head as a habit, especially when you aren't speaking to anyone directly, gives the other person in the room insight on your thought processes and calculating tendencies. It also allows someone besides yourself to evaluate independently the steps you have taken to arrive at any given conclusion, thus double-checking for errors in an earlier stage of the progress, when adjustment is less resistant to change or costly. This is merely one advantage of long-term relationships. A mated pair can be exponentially more than the sum of its parts. Moving unified in concert saves time otherwise used by one person struggling to manage a schedule overfilled with simultaneous next steps. Secrecy, or worse, dishonesty, is detrimental and in direct opposition to the entire point of forming an interpersonal union. A further waste of time eroding an unknown supply. State your goals continuously and be true to them. It really is a matter of life and death.