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Never hold back what you actually think just because you’re afraid it’s controversial. People can feel when you’re editing yourself in real time. They hear the hesitation. They see you checking their reaction before you finish your sentence. You think you’re keeping the peace, but you’re showing them that you’re afraid to stand behind your own words. Say what you mean. Say why you believe it. If someone disagrees, have the conversation. If they show you you’re wrong, change your mind. That’s strength too. But don’t hide an opinion and pretend you don’t have one. I would rather hear what you really think and argue with you than sit through a conversation where neither of us is willing to be honest.