Dale
Dale
10/13/2025, 6:51:46 PM

I wonder when older women in the United States are going to run out of reasons to blame men for not getting the attention from men like they did when they were younger. It is true that more young men than ever before in history have fallen prey to being literally brainwashed by media to believe the only attractive women are younger looking, but it is also true that, for as far back as records are kept, men have been drawn to the looks of a woman who looks like she took better care of herself throughout her life, or at least looks like staying physical fit has been a priority. Show me any older man with a woman close to his own age who focuses on staying physically fit as much as everything else, and I’ll show you a happy old man. I am no psychologist, but I think I can say with a great degree of certainty from being in more than a couple of relationships over the course of a few decades, that there is the obvious of a more fit figure a woman has, the more attractive she is to a man, yet I truly believe one of the underlying factors for why a man will single out a physically fit woman to give his attention to rather than the other, is because the woman who appears more physically in tone has longevity written all over her. And I’m not just talking about longevity as far as life expectancy is concerned; I’m primarily talking about longevity in regard to him getting his sexual and intimate needs met. Older women can go ahead and continue to point the finger at men all they want, call them shallow and use all the derogatory descriptions they can dream up to say it’s men who need to change, but one thing is for sure about men of any age, there interest and ultimately choice of which women they would rather give their attention to will almost always depend on how well she takes care of herself physically as well as in every other way. And, for any married woman or woman in a committed relationship who still doubts the claim I just made of how much of a difference your physical health will determine how well you get along with your guy, start some form of concentration on become physically fit, for even a week, and watch the difference in his attitude towards you.

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