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You need to get around my energy. Because what feels normal to me will eventually begin to feel normal to you. It’s normal for me to get rich. It’s normal for me to build businesses and create opportunities. It’s normal for me to post content every single day. It’s normal for me to be extremely happy. It’s normal for me to be charismatic, outgoing, expressive, and completely alive. I don’t treat these things like impossible achievements reserved for extraordinary people. I treat them like everyday life. When you spend time around someone who sees success as impossible, their fear starts to feel reasonable. Their hesitation becomes normal. Their excuses become normal. Their limitations begin to sound like common sense. But when you spend time around someone who expects to create, grow, connect, and win, something changes. You watch how I think. You hear how I speak. You see how naturally I take action. You realize I’m not asking myself whether I’m allowed to live this way. I’ve already accepted it as normal. That belief begins rubbing off on you. Posting content stops feeling intimidating. Talking to strangers stops feeling unusual. Building wealth stops feeling like something only other people can do. Feeling joyful stops feeling naïve. Expressing yourself stops feeling dangerous. You begin asking a different question: “If this is normal for him, why can’t it become normal for me?” That is the power of proximity. People don’t only exchange information. They exchange standards. They exchange expectations. They exchange emotional states. They exchange definitions of what is possible. The right person doesn’t just tell you to think bigger. Their existence makes thinking bigger feel natural. Get around people whose normal life resembles the future you want. Let their standards challenge yours. Let their courage expand yours. Let their energy remind you of what is possible. Eventually, what once looked extraordinary becomes familiar. Then it becomes believable. Then it becomes your new normal.