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Hello, friends. My name is Sarah. 🌸 I’m 41, I live in Canada and I’m a transgender woman early in my transition. For most of my life, I lived quietly under a name that never fit—a role I thought I had to play to be accepted. But last year, something shifted. The weight of pretending became heavier than the fear of being seen for who I truly am. So I took a breath… and began. This isn’t a “coming out” story—it’s a *coming home* story. To myself. I’m not new to advocacy—I’ve spent decades working in education and community support—but now, I’m stepping forward as me Sarah. A woman who loves rainy Sundays with a good book, strong coffee, CBC Radio, and the way maple trees turn gold in October. A woman learning to walk in heels, yes—but also learning to trust her voice, her intuition, and her right to take up space. I’m sharing my journey not because it’s dramatic, but because it’s real. And because at 41, I know there are others—maybe older, maybe quiet like I was—who need to hear: **It’s never too late to become yourself.** In Canada, trans rights are human rights—but those rights are being tested. From bathroom bills to healthcare delays, our community needs visibility and solidarity. I’ll be talking about navigating provincial healthcare systems, finding affirming care later in life, and what it means to build chosen family when your past feels complicated. If you’re trans: I see you. If you’re an ally: Thank you for walking beside us. If you’re just curious: Welcome. Let’s learn together. This space will be gentle, honest, and full of Canadian politeness—with a side of stubborn hope. 💜 Follow along if you believe everyone deserves to live as their truest self—especially here, in this country we call home. #TransAt40 #TransCanadian #MyNameIsSarah #TransRightsAreHumanRights #LateBloomingJoy #Canada #trans #mtf *(P.S. Pronouns: She/Her. And yes—I *will* eventually figure out how to contour properly. One step at a time.)* ☕🍁