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Unless completely embodying faggot mindset, playing solo with chastity belts (and how many have we collected, no shape or size fully satisfying, there's always something new "to have"!) may feel unsatisfying, void, difficult to pursue long-term. It's just a tool to apply, a toy to collect, a costume to wear. Virtual community support, remote dominance, gamification with apps, collecting likes and extending challenges - barely substitutes the story, the context, the contact. This sort of play begs for interaction, power exchange, someone willing to be a dominant counterpoint to one's submissive potential. Someone to set the rules, pace, intensity, challenges, perhaps even long-term effects - all those little inputs of unpredictability that can tease one's sexual self. The actual source of excitement. However, recently I started to explore the fantasies of equal2equal play in kink. Imagine going for a hike with a friend, locking each-other the first thing in the morning, holding the key to each-other's private parts. Both of you becoming dominant and submissive at the same time. Helping each other with whatever fantasy gets you going - ignoring those things down there that you "have no right to play with", trying to turn each other on and cause discomfort, or supporting each other in sexual denial and "behaving correctly", channeling the sexual energy to physical performance, turning your whole body to a sensitized sexual organ. Being together in an erotic way, without needing to rub the dicks and holes. Becoming creative as much as the twisted mind allows.